Dating a 21 year old single mom, want to add to the discussion?
Imagine it from the guy's point of view. She's so loved and she's such a happy baby. We know how to build Legos and play catch. I am also far less critical of other people, including men. Thank you for sharing! I dont blame them. Pretty big risk if you ask me Hand sanitizer, Chapstick, a small dinosaur, some crayons, or a flashlight?
As for the Dad, you should let him see her, but make clear boundaries and voice your concerns about the people and just mention that you are thinking the safety of your child. It's widely believed that you shouldn't introduce your partners to your kids anyway, just so the kids don't get attached to someone who'll likely leave after a while.
When a single mom considers dating someone, there is a lot of thought that goes into that decision. You won't be able to vote or comment.
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We talked about a life together, living together, and having kids eventually. Some days all I want to do is eat Butterfingers. The only unusual behavior on your part was electing to become a mother, instead of an abortion and then going on with your life as usual.
If there's an older kid, now you start having thoughts like "Am I a replacement father here? So I had no problem with her having a kid but I didn't see a point in putting in effort not to get it back.
Date on your own terms, as your mood and needs evolve.
I'm just ready to be on my own and discover myself more before I try that ride yet again. Pampering includes calling the babysitter. Until the mini people are old enough to get their own cereal and turn on the cartoons, there's no such thing as sleeping in.
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She has all of the love and support she'll ever need without a dad. Feel like she's perfect except you don't want kids?
Your best bet is meeting a guy at church. That's why my husband and I clicked so much.
I have lunches to make and doctor appointments to schedule. Get insight into what it all means with your daily horoscope.
She probably doesn't need saving, but she definitely needs a dating a 21 year old single mom. All of those things are things I shouldnt have to deal with. No need to waste your time with someone who doesn't. I haven't heard from him since.
I can do better than her. She can't just see how the is jenelle still dating gary goes and stay out as long as she might want.